I delayed posting as I was trying to remember how I moved from NJ to Va.. All I remember was it was rough. My daughter was a toddler at the time, and I packed whatever I would need to keep her busy for the day as the movers were supposed to come and of course the dogs. Well the truck did not show up until 9pm ( they got lost..) but the house only had one ceiling light, and the lamps were packed.
My now ex had come down the week before for several days and found a job- we had bought a house but anyway- I like the above idea about real estate agents in the area to set up housing and monster. Also- get the local paper- even if you have to pay for them to mail it for a few weeks to you. Call and send resumes.
My heart goes out to you- moving long distance is a strain. You are in my prayers..