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  1. #1
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    I really want to cry for you, especially after looking at Jenna's sweet sleeping pictures. I know all too well a similar situation like this - my friend and her baby daughter. She never ended up going to jail (although she should have) but it was the same situation - abusive baby's daddy, drugs, wasting money, etc.
    Except, she isn't as fortunate as Amy Beth. Her family was very abusive towards her but still turned around and bailed her out. She still needs to learn after a year or so of this happening, just like Amy Beth, and it's a great thing you are allowing her to learn. Sometime down her path she will thank you for this, I am sure.

    I am so glad Jenna is in your loving care. She is a very beatiful little girl. I want to give her a great big hug.

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    Kim, my heart just breaks for you and your family You have been so strong and yet so loving throughout this ordeal - I admire your courage.

    Amy Beth has a hard lesson to learn and it won't be an easy one. Watching her struggle has to be the worst experience of your life. Please remember to take comfort from those around you who care and don't be afraid to ask for help - you deserve every shoulder to lean on, dear lady.

    Having the baby with you is a godsend - at least you know she is out of harm's way. You are her guardian angel and she is a lucky little girl to have you.

    Sending you continued prayers that this situation takes a turn in the right direction - many hugs,

    Betty
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    Oh Kim.... what a terrible mess. What has Amy Beth gotten everyone into?!? Hopefully this will be the wakeup call she desperately needs. No more excuses, this is REAL and SERIOUS! Sounds like she has been painting Chad as the bad guy all along when she was equally at fault.

    Thank goodness you have Jenna and she'll spend Christmas in a safe and loiving place. Prayers that she continues to stay with you and things work out soon.

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    Kim, it seems to me that you and your husband have done everything possible to help Amy Beth, protect both her and Jenna, and still this has backfired. I want to force my daughter to read everyone of these situations that I read about to make sure she knows how wrong things can go!

    Thank you for loving Jenna the way you do. And thank you for loving Amy Beth enough to have done what you have to support her, but knowing when to stop, too.

    Logan

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    Kim, as others have said, you did the right thing by not bailing Amy Beth out. Hopefully she'll be able to clear her head and get the help she needs for her drug addiction. I'm so glad that Jenna is now safe with you and I hope that you'll be able to get custody of her. Lots of prayers and positive thoughts are being sent your way. Please take care. (((HUGS)))

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    Sometimes our children break our hearts, that's for sure. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Sometimes tough love is the only love that works. I try to remember this saying ... "If God brings you to it, He will bring you through it." Stay strong, and don't forget, you are doing to right things, albeit not always the easy things.
    "We give dogs the time we can spare, the space we can spare and the love we can spare. And in return, dogs give us their all. It's the best deal man has ever made" - M. Facklam

    "We are raised to honor all the wrong explorers and discoverers - thieves planting flags, murderers carrying crosses. Let us at last praise the colonizers of dreams."- P.S. Beagle

    "All that is gold does not glitter, Not all those who wander are lost; The old that is strong does not wither, Deep roots are not reached by the frost. From the ashes a fire shall be woken, A light from the shadows shall spring; Renewed shall be blade that was broken, The crownless again shall be king." - J.R.R. Tolkien

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    Kim, I don't even know quite what to say. I am sorry that you are going thru this mess, having to deal with this must be hard enough, and having to care for a 2 year old at the same time as you having to sort through your thoughts, emotions and everything else you are dealing with...I am just so sorry. I agree that you did right by doing the "tough love" thing with Amy Beth, why should she be given a reward as getting out, when she did something so wrong. Hopefully her time in jail will give her plenty of time to think through her mistakes. Thankfully Jenna is fine and is luckily not any older than she is...I think she is too young to ask too many questions or to really comprehend it all, so that in and of itself is a good thing...if she were 4 or 5 years old, then it would probably really be affecting her more ( but I am sure it is confusing to her just the same).

    I will pray for you and your family...you can be sure. (((HUGS))) and love from me, Kim.









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