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    OMG ....... what the heck was Amy Beth thinking???? NO thinking here, no doubt about that ...! How could she leave a 2 year old alone with drugs on the counter . No excuse for that, you took the right decision about NOT bailing her out!
    Poor little Jenna, I feel so sorry for this sweet innoscent little girl... . But at least she is safe now, she is with her dearest grandma now , someone who loves her VERY much!

    You are all in my prayers, Kimmie!!
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    Dear sweet Kim. All I can say is that I think Amy Beth is in the right place. She needs to stay there. And, Jenna is in the right place. She needs to stay with you.

    You are in our thoughts and prayers.
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    OMG Kim! I can't believe how bad this has turned. I think you did the right thing in not bailing her out. She needs help and hopefully this will help her realize it.

    You're in my prayers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jazzcat
    OMG Kim! I can't believe how bad this has turned. I think you did the right thing in not bailing her out. She needs help and hopefully this will help her realize it.

    You're in my prayers.
    I am in shock
    you did the right thing for not bailing her.
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    I'm so very sorry you are having to deal with all this crap. You did do the right thing by not bailing your daughter out of jail. With her having NO one to enable her she will hopefully realize she is the one, the only one that can fix her life. My thoughts and prayers are with ALL of you. Please take care of yourself.

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    Kim,

    I'm crying right now for you and your situation. This is unimaginable to me! I pray that she will be ordered to parenting classes and that everything will work out for the best.

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    You did right by not enabling her by bailing her out. I can't imagine how you feel. I'm so upset.

    PLEASE..is there anything we can do to help Jenna have a beautiful Christmas. Please PM me with your address. I'd love to help ASAP.



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    Kim, thank God Jenna is safe with you. I pray your daughter will get help and I pray for you to have the strength to deal with this situation. {hugs}
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    you did the right thing in getting to jenna so fast and refusing to post bail. i am so sorry that this is so ugly.
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    Of course you did the right thing by not bailing her out. Your daughter is a very sick woman who is completely controlled by her addictions at this time. Maybe a little jail time would sober her up & clear her head. I think craftlady's suggestion for you to see a lawyer about getting custody of Jenna is very sensible one. Your daughter will not be fit to care for her for a very long time, possibly years. She needs some serious intervention if she is going to ever get her life on the right track.
    For your sake, please realize Amy Beth's drug/alcohol problem is not your fault. Thank God that you are there to pick up the pieces. lots of hugs & prayers going out for you.

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    I am sooo very sorry, Kim. atleast Jenna is with you and you did the right thing by not bailing her out. I wouldn't have, either. maybe this will give her time to think what a horrible thing she has done to her daughter. my thoughts and prayers are with you all. (((HUGS)))
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    Kim, I'm so very sorry to hear that. I really hope that your daughter can get some help.

    I'm glad that Jenna is safe with you.


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    I really want to cry for you, especially after looking at Jenna's sweet sleeping pictures. I know all too well a similar situation like this - my friend and her baby daughter. She never ended up going to jail (although she should have) but it was the same situation - abusive baby's daddy, drugs, wasting money, etc.
    Except, she isn't as fortunate as Amy Beth. Her family was very abusive towards her but still turned around and bailed her out. She still needs to learn after a year or so of this happening, just like Amy Beth, and it's a great thing you are allowing her to learn. Sometime down her path she will thank you for this, I am sure.

    I am so glad Jenna is in your loving care. She is a very beatiful little girl. I want to give her a great big hug.

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    Kim, my heart just breaks for you and your family You have been so strong and yet so loving throughout this ordeal - I admire your courage.

    Amy Beth has a hard lesson to learn and it won't be an easy one. Watching her struggle has to be the worst experience of your life. Please remember to take comfort from those around you who care and don't be afraid to ask for help - you deserve every shoulder to lean on, dear lady.

    Having the baby with you is a godsend - at least you know she is out of harm's way. You are her guardian angel and she is a lucky little girl to have you.

    Sending you continued prayers that this situation takes a turn in the right direction - many hugs,

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    Oh Kim.... what a terrible mess. What has Amy Beth gotten everyone into?!? Hopefully this will be the wakeup call she desperately needs. No more excuses, this is REAL and SERIOUS! Sounds like she has been painting Chad as the bad guy all along when she was equally at fault.

    Thank goodness you have Jenna and she'll spend Christmas in a safe and loiving place. Prayers that she continues to stay with you and things work out soon.

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