Hell I thought my crowd could be bad but oooohhhh mother what a mess - you and your family should just do your own thing in future and pardon my language but screw the rest of them. I myself have had it up to my neck with families. My mother is putting the guilts on me because I do not want to spend Christmas Day with her when my brother who is married is spending it with her and his wife is going to her parents for Christmas Day - ehhhh hello married couples should we not spend it together???????? We are all relatively newly weds my brother married this year and I last year so spending the day together should be - right????? I said I would come up and visit in the afternoon or the morning and she threw a wobbler but never mind your troubles are worse and if I was you I kick my husband in the rear end and get him to say something seeing as they are his family..........