Major Worries! IT's EVEN WORSE!!!

[kimlovescats]

dear kim, i haven't posted before, but i've been reading every update. you all have been in my prayers. i have an idea, can you and your daughter get an appointment to talk to the lead proscuter in your area, bring all the copies of notes, the bailbonds, any police reports, hospital reports, anything related to this case and when you talk to them this time, tell the DA that you will also be talking notes from this meeting and going to the local editor of the biggest paper in town and what ever tv station has an "action team on your side". publicity makes poor public preformance improve. smile, gently mention this. and we'll keep praying for you all

Thank you. I already tried to call the DA's office and was told that there are at least 3 different DA's and they have 100's of cases coming up at the same time. Basically they couldn't do anything ... we would just have to wait until the day of court and fill them in at the last minute! Some system, huh? As far as calling the news .... we're not "big time" enough.

Tomorrow morning, Amy Beth has to be in court at 9:00 a.m. for the restraining order she filed OVER a WEEK ago! As of today, it hadn't even been served yet!!! I don't know if they served it when they arrested him today or not ... I doubt it! So, most likely she will waste her time in court tomorrow, he probably won't be there, and she will get put off for who knows how long.

The court date for the aggravated assault charge is January 2nd. All I can do is hope and pray that he is sent to jail for a LONG time after that! I never thought I would ever want Christmas to come and go and the first of the year come.

[mina'smomma]

Tomorrow morning, Amy Beth has to be in court at 9:00 a.m. for the restraining order she filed OVER a WEEK ago! As of today, it hadn't even been served yet!!! I don't know if they served it when they arrested him today or not ... I doubt it! So, most likely she will waste her time in court tomorrow, he probably won't be there, and she will get put off for who knows how long.

Kim,

Hun don't let them try and say they can't serve him in jail, because they can. That is a federal law. If you have to find out when he is in jail go up there and present them with the order and a return notice that he has to sign saying he has received it. If you need help or someone to talk to I'm always here for you.

Hugs
Renae

[catnapper]

Oh Kim, I am appaled at these updates. It puts such faith in our court systems... it seems they are now set up to protect the criminals instead of the people they hurt. Many prayers for your family tomorrow.

[Catty1]

Amy Beth is not wasting her time. As someone here - Borzoimom? - said, she has seen restraining orders cancelled because the complainant (Amy) did not show up.

Her showing up shows that she - and you - are serious about this.

HUGS!

[borzoimom]

You show up honey- you show up! It shows the court this is not resolved, it shows the court YOU ARE RESOLVED to finish this, and it shows the court, you are willing to take the time because you believe in this and know what is going on.. You show up.. ! Get there early as a matter of fact. Other cases get dropped because people did not show- but you are there..

[Cataholic]

I will add the following: make sure Amy Beth and YOU show up, without Jenna. Dress appropriately, write down ahead of time what you want to make sure you emphasize, and be strong.

The prosecutor has too many cases, and they usually shift rooms every month (at least here in our main county), cases settle, etc., that no time is spent at preliminary hearings, or, for trials. Staying in touch with the main officer, or probation officer is **usually** the best thing. Make it personal to them. Write a letter or two to have it stuck in jacket. Let the prosecutor, that sees this day in and day out, know how serious you are. Too many times this is just used as a way to get back at someone....

Stay the course.

[ramanth]

Still thinking and praying for you, Amy, Jenna, and the family. *hugs*

[Maya & Inka's mommy]

I will add the following: make sure Amy Beth and YOU show up, without Jenna. Dress appropriately, write down ahead of time what you want to make sure you emphasize, and be strong.

The prosecutor has too many cases, and they usually shift rooms every month (at least here in our main county), cases settle, etc., that no time is spent at preliminary hearings, or, for trials. Staying in touch with the main officer, or probation officer is **usually** the best thing. Make it personal to them. Write a letter or two to have it stuck in jacket. Let the prosecutor, that sees this day in and day out, know how serious you are. Too many times this is just used as a way to get back at someone....

Stay the course.

PERFECT!!
Oh my Kim, I am so sorry that you , your daughter and little Jenna have to go through all this mess.... . All I can wish you all is LOTS of COURAGE! Don't give up, this is worth it...! Please stay safe..... I begged my little brother-in-heaven to watch over all of you

[kimlovescats]

I didn't get to go because I had to keep Jenna. Amy Beth did go, and his mother came and sat down right beside her, to harrass her! I wish I had been able to go and keep her from doing that!!!

We don't have anyone else right now that can keep Jenna .... the mil was usually our backup. I will be sure to make it to the main hearing in January though. I think my hubby will still be on his work break and can keep Jenna for us! If not, I will find SOMEONE to keep her for us!!!

Anyway, the judge continued it because he said a civil case has to come AFTER a criminal case. So the criminal case (aggravated assault) will be held on January 2nd, and the continuance for the restraining order will be held on January 25th. HOPEFULLY, he will be arrested and jailed after the January 2nd date and there will be no need for the January 25th date. This thing just keeps going on and on and on.

Surely he will stop stalking her now .... as he only found out about the restraining order yesterday when he was arrested. His mother played her usual games of "just wanting to see the best for Jenna" and denying he has done anything wrong! She wants to see Jenna really bad, but that isn't going to happen until all of this is settled!!!

THANK YOU all for your continued support and prayers! I am reading all the comments and taking the advice that you give as much as I can!

Kim