Major Worries! IT's EVEN WORSE!!!

[borzoimom]

sent you a pm..

[catfamily]

I'm sure he knows NOW that your daughter means business and soon he'll start behaving better.(By keeping away).At least I hope!I'm so glad your daughter has her family(You and your husband)to help her through this.Most woman don't.I'm so happy your family is close.

[borzoimom]

How is it going???

[kimlovescats]

How is it going???

Thank you for asking! We haven't heard ANYTHING since we filed for the warrant!!! I don't know if they can't find him or what! It is very disturbing and frustrating!!!! They have a court date this Thursday morning, for the restraining order, but I don't think THAT has even been served yet!!!

[borzoimom]

Thank you for asking! We haven't heard ANYTHING since we filed for the warrant!!! I don't know if they can't find him or what! It is very disturbing and frustrating!!!! They have a court date this Thursday morning, for the restraining order, but I don't think THAT has even been served yet!!!

You show up anyway. If nothing else a bench warrent will be given for his failure to appear and threat charges for a restraining. You go- and say whatever you and her need too. The judge will still listen to the restraining order as it has nothing to do with the arrest...

[kimlovescats]

We will. I sure was counting on him being arrested again by now though.

[borzoimom]

We will. I sure was counting on him being arrested again by now though.

Whether they get him yet or not, the restraining order if they dont find him, convinces the judge more so to get it done! ( trust me..)

[Ginger's Mom]

Well, actually, they can't issue a bench warrant for failure to appear for a court hearing that he was never noticed to appear at. However, borzoimom is right, your daughter Must appear at that hearing. She can ask the Judge to continue the restraints, and he may listen to some of the other concerns she has. At the next court hearing even if her husband has not been served the Judge may make the restraints permanent (issue a final restraining order). Your daughter should take a copy of the final order to ther local police department to be put in their files as well. Just make sure that your daughter shows up at every court hearing in relation to that restraining order, whether he shows up or not. I have seen RO dismissed for lack of prosecution because the complainant didn't show up.

[kimlovescats]

Thank you, Ginger's Mom, for your input as well!