Major Worries! IT's EVEN WORSE!!!

[krazyaboutkatz]

Oh yes, Momma always bails her baby boy out!

I was wondering how he was able to come up with the bail money. I sure hope that your grand daughter isn't staying with his mom any more because there's no telling what she might allow to happen to her. She might even hand her over to Chad.

I'm still keeping your family in my thoughts and prayers. I sure hope that this nightmare will soon be over for good. (((HUGS)))

[kimlovescats]

I was wondering how he was able to come up with the bail money. I sure hope that your grand daughter isn't staying with his mom any more because there's no telling what she might allow to happen to her. She might even hand her over to Chad.

I'm still keeping your family in my thoughts and prayers. I sure hope that this nightmare will soon be over for good. (((HUGS)))

Tracey, Jenna will NOT be staying with his mom anymore! Only me or someone in my family!

[kimlovescats]

Would you believe he duct-taped a cologne-filled note on Amy Beth's apartment door knob sometime early this morning? It said something like "always and forever" and signed it with their personal knickname they used for eachother!!!! This guy is SICK!!!!

She called the police and the police woman came out and made a report and took the note as evidence. Unfortunately, she said she could not go and pick him up based on the "evidence". She told Amy Beth to go down to her Cricket store and ask for a print out of her calls. Supposedly even blocked calls will show the number it came from on their records! I sure hope they will cooperate and CAN do this for her!

It angers me though that this evidence was not enough to go and pick him up ... it is STALKING!!!! (one of the many things she put in her narrative for her restraining order) I just don't understand it. If she just says she sees his car in the parking lot, or that he called and he talked to her, he can be picked up. FRUSTRATED MOM HERE!!!

[borzoimom]

She needs a restaining order to herself and her property. Every incident call the police... EVERY SINGLE ONE. And they can finger print it too. Next time tell her dont touch it- but I would not wait until a "next time" .

[kimlovescats]

She needs a restaining order to herself and her property. Every incident call the police... EVERY SINGLE ONE. And they can finger print it too. Next time tell her dont touch it- but I would not wait until a "next time" .

She filed for the restraining order yesterday, and the judge approved it. Unfortunately it takes a few days before it is served. They have a court date on December 7th for that! The court date for the assault charges are January 2nd.

[borzoimom]

She filed for the restraining order yesterday, and the judge approved it. Unfortunately it takes a few days before it is served. They have a court date on December 7th for that! The court date for the assault charges are January 2nd.

Good- then all she has to do with an approved restraining order is call and see she got another letter. If nothing else- it goes into the pile for the charges or sentencing etc.

[catfamily]

OMG!!! I'm so sorry I'm just reading ALL of this.What a sick situation.I hope and WILL be praying MANY prayers for your daughter,grandaughter,you,your hubby,and the rest of your family.You'll need all the prayers you can get.I went through a very similar situation with my ex-husband and it was so horrible I still have nightmares 15 years later.
I do hope they take prints for later.And of course your daughter seems extra smart with everything she's done so far.Good for her.You should be so proud of her for calling the police right away.I know you are and I know how scared you are.God,there's not much to say here Kim.I just need to tell you that I'm in BIG fear for her and all involved's lives here.This is more serious than imaginable.Things DO happen,and FEAR is necessary.
Prayers,Prayers,Prayers on the way.

[Russian Blue]

Would you believe he duct-taped a cologne-filled note on Amy Beth's apartment door knob sometime early this morning? It said something like "always and forever" and signed it with their personal knickname they used for eachother!!!! This guy is SICK!!!!

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It angers me though that this evidence was not enough to go and pick him up ... it is STALKING!!!! (one of the many things she put in her narrative for her restraining order) I just don't understand it.

Because no one saw him place this on the doorknob, any person could have done this (in the eyes of the Police). What a horrible, scary time for Amy Beth and your family.

Is there any possibility of Amy Beth and your granddaughter moving away for now? Maybe to a out of town relative etc.? It's horrible she has to move to get away from this guy, but at least it would be some piece of mind for her safety (in the short term). This guy is not playing with a full deck and it sounds like he is going over the edge.

Also, small spy cameras are pretty cheap these days because of the advancement of technology. You could buy a cheap one and tape it to the top of her door so if anyone comes near her apartment it will be recorded. Just a thought to catch this creep.

[borzoimom]

I disagree- he has already been arrested- they have his finger prints. Please call them..

[kimlovescats]

I disagree- he has already been arrested- they have his finger prints. Please call them..

That's what I thought too, but I'm assuming this case is not "big enough" for our small department to waste their time and money on that!

[borzoimom]

That's what I thought too, but I'm assuming this case is not "big enough" for our small department to waste their time and money on that!

It has nothing to do with it. The laws have gotten tougher with woman getting seriously injured or worse by the PD's lack of support, that now quite frankly- they should do it. Talk to the Police chef. See he knows, if he doesnt do something, and something happens, ...