I dont see anything wrong with adopting but its different having your own blood and your own baby, I have a 3 year old and he's the best thing to ever happen. Its great seeing your child and being able to say awww yeah he has my eyes and my smile and he is such a sweet heart like his dad etc. My friends mom adopted alittle boy and is adopting alittle girl but the one she wanted ended up having something wrong with her DNA and now she cant adopt her so they are looking to adopt another one, she had a daughter who died of cancer a few years ago and she has a son so she did both, I think it would be cool to do both.