Hi Jennie (my fellow 1by1 volunteer and foster mom). I know of your situation, and am out of ideas for you.

The only new things that I can mention, are

1-more litter boxes and/or placing them in different areas.

or


2-Have you ever tried to separate George from the girls (instead of the other way around)? like maybe let him bunk with the upstairs fosters for a while to see if attitudes change?

Have you tried rescue remedy in their water? I can't vouch for it (but I am going to start trying it myself VERY soon. a lot of fighting going on lately)


How about tossing the 2 pee-bodies up in your foster rooms and giving the fosters access to the rest of the house with the "good cats"?

Maybe a medication OTHER than amitriptylin?

Diapers???

I know there are people here who deal (or have dealt) with this, so hoepfully something they have done will work for you.

(glad you posted)