Having been there myself, I can only encourage you to do whatEVER you think is in Cam's best interest. If this means you are buying him diapers, buy them. If this means you are buying him formula, buy it. If this means buying him a winter coat, buy it.

As for the stresses involved with raising an infant, I can tell you first hand, It. Is. Hard. I needed (and still need) tons of support. I wasn't getting any sleep, was eating poorly, felt isolated, and did I mention I wasn't getting any sleep?

If she is yelling at Cam, then, for heaven's sake- regardless of who is at fault, regardless of who is the 'adult', regardless of WHY, she needs some time away.

The tough love advice in some of the posters is ridiculous, considering the young, innocent baby will be paying the price.

Sure, SHE had the baby. But, last I checked, Catnapper's husband had SHE!

Hang in there, Kim. You can't see it, but, you are doing triple time right now. It will, and it does make a difference. You are doing right.