I hate to say it, but the majority of this problem is you and your husband's fault for doing too much for her in the past and not making this a big enough consequence for her. You have bent over backwards, much too far, and done much too much for her to be learning the lessons she needs to. She also knows if he is out of diapers you will buy them. She has not REALLY had to take responsibility for everything. As sucky as it is, you need to start requiring her to pay rent, as well as utility bills, contribute for food, and pay for her own baby. She is the one who got pregnant, she needs to take the responsibility for it, but you and your husband are shouldering a good majority of that responsbility, too much of it. She was spoiled when he was on the way and she's been spoiled up to now. She needs a hard lesson in reality, and she won't get it unless you cut off the cash cow. Make sure Cameron is taken care of enough so that he isn't in danger, but make her foot the bill. Stop doing everything for her. Don't do her laundry, or his, don't buy him clothes, let him wear what he has. Don't sell them on ebay for her so she can buy more. Stop enabling her to be a spoiled little brat.
BTW I didn't mean it in a rude way, just that you gusy do too much for her and she takes it for granted and has yet to see reality hit her in the face. She needs to take more responsibility for her choices, not you guys continuing to foot the bills.
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