Did I miss the logic here?

**jenluckenbach** · 11-19-2006, 12:39 PM

This is not the first time I heard a reference to Ashley NOT liking Camry's choice of clothes. I am feeling quite like "Well, I am surely not going to spend any more money on gifts of clothes only for them to be rejected! " He will NOT die due to UGLY. Just wait until he chooses his OWN clothes....THAT will probably be uglier!

(p.s. I too prefer a clothed baby to a naked one. Don't know why, just personal preference)

**caseysmom** · 11-19-2006, 04:46 PM

Kim Perhaps she knows it bugs you and she is doing it on purpose. Maybe ignore it for a while...turn the heat up so he doesn't freeze and see what happens...although she isn't paying the heating bill so she won't care. I love it when my girls walk around in spaghetti straps and complain about how cold it is in the house

**molucass** · 11-19-2006, 04:48 PM

I'm 21 (and pregnant) and I personally wouldn't care whether or not it was ugly. If they still fit I would be glad to let my baby wear it. I mean if its just around the house, why does it matter whether or not it is ugly.
I wouldn't let my baby be in just a diaper when its cold outside, regardless if the child is in the house.

**kimlovescats** · 11-19-2006, 09:15 PM

I feel your pain!

**critter crazy** · 11-19-2006, 09:19 PM

Some people just dont get it! My SIL wouldnt take used baby clothes from me, she preferred to go out and buy all brand new stuff! It is rediculous, i dont get it, they grow so fast that they only get to wear an outfit a couple of times anyways! Now my niece on the other hand, juts emptied out the attic with all of our baby stuff, cause she is due in march! She loved all the free stuff, i was so happy i could help!

**catnapper** · 11-19-2006, 09:32 PM

I told hubby the story and he rolled his eyes.

All I know is the girl needs a serious wake up call... she's worried about his clothes being ugly more so than serious things like what his father does to support him. Things are getting too stressful for her. I haven't mentioned it but things are definately stressful and she's been on edge. He screamswhen he's with her all the time now, and quiets when we take him from her. He knows she's tense and he picks up on it. Hubby tore into her last night because she wanted to watch a movie and he decided to have a temper tantrum. She screamed at him that she is "tired of his crap"

Poor girl couldn't watch her movie.... awwww... pity party for the 18 year old mom

Hubby said she should NEVER tell her son that his crying is a bunch of crap. Its getting bad. Thursday should be "interesting" because hubby's sisters will be here and they plan on giving her a lecture on growing up.

**critter crazy** · 11-19-2006, 09:40 PM

Well All I know is thank the lord that you and hubby are there!!! Could you imagine how she would be if you went?? I have to hand it to you, you guys are keeping that baby safe, and helping her out at the same time. she does need to grow up, unfortunately we cant dictate just how fast!

My SIL adopted a baby from a young girl(friend of the family) who got pregnant at 14! two years later she was pregnant again! so my SIL being the wonderful person she is adopted the next little girl, now she is prgnant again! she says she plans on keeping this baby, but already is having problems with her boyfriend. My SIL has already said she cannot adopt the third, it would be too much! But this girl has been pregnant 3 times,at age 14, 16, and 18! what is wrong with the youth of today?? do they not get it?? I AM SCARED TO THINK WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO THIS BABY!

**Sara luvs her Tinky** · 11-20-2006, 07:11 AM

This makes me think of all those teenage girls on the talk shows that want and will have a baby no matter what. They just don't realize the sacrifices you have to make. She should be thankful that she has you guys and isn't doing it on her own.

Anyways.... as far as the "ugly" outfit... 90% of Alden's clothes are 2nd hand... and I can't be more thankful for them... And if I even thought that it might be ugly... i just put it on him and he turns it 100% ~*CUTE*~. LOL.....

**shais_mom** · 11-20-2006, 01:32 PM

Originally Posted by catnapper

I told hubby the story and he rolled his eyes.

All I know is the girl needs a serious wake up call... she's worried about his clothes being ugly more so than serious things like what his father does to support him. Things are getting too stressful for her. I haven't mentioned it but things are definately stressful and she's been on edge. He screamswhen he's with her all the time now, and quiets when we take him from her. He knows she's tense and he picks up on it. Hubby tore into her last night because she wanted to watch a movie and he decided to have a temper tantrum. She screamed at him that she is "tired of his crap"

Poor girl couldn't watch her movie.... awwww... pity party for the 18 year old mom

Hubby said she should NEVER tell her son that his crying is a bunch of crap. Its getting bad. Thursday should be "interesting" because hubby's sisters will be here and they plan on giving her a lecture on growing up.

Pick up some pamphlets on adoption and tell her if it that much CRAP here ya go. Just 2 weeks ago one of my coworkers - her grandson was taken to Children's with a subdural hematoma and 6 broken bones. Did I mention that the baby was 2 months old? The dad dropped the baby on his head a week before. It took her that long to bring the baby in. Mom is also known as a liar.The baby wasn't a planned pregnancy. The mom is 23ish as is the dad. The grandma was soooo excited over being a grandma and that was all she talked about. Now the baby is in custody of children's services and is going up for adoption which last I heard the grandparent's weren't allowed to adopt him as they don't know if they were the ones that did it or caused it.

**shais_mom** · 11-20-2006, 01:22 PM

Originally Posted by jenluckenbach

This is not the first time I heard a reference to Ashley NOT liking Camry's choice of clothes. I am feeling quite like "Well, I am surely not going to spend any more money on gifts of clothes only for them to be rejected! " He will NOT die due to UGLY. Just wait until he chooses his OWN clothes....THAT will probably be uglier!

(p.s. I too prefer a clothed baby to a naked one. Don't know why, just personal preference)

that's kind of what I was thinking - not that I contributed to a gift or anything but seems like she is acting not only a tad immature but a tad spoiled too. Dare I say it? Sounds like she is looking a gift horse in the mouth also if some of those clothes were gifts. That's a good way to NOT get things anymore!

Good luck