Duh! I DO know Decker was neutered. I'm to YOUNG to be having senior moments!!!!!

Dad has a suggestion. May have to wait until they are off the special food. Dad wondered if maybe Decker feels as if he has no control over feeding times. Feed him separately from Moxie, AND give him less. Then he has to learn to come tell you when he is hungry; and of course you will feed him, as he had less to eat and can have a snack. Don't do this at bedtime, you want to sleep through the night! And don't do this on a day when you are going out for 5 or 6 hours.

Dad reminded me that during the 4 months she was this wild thing, Crystal learned to tell me she is hungry. Before that, with all the other older cats here took care of that and she never HAD to ASK for food. It just appearred and she probably didn't even know why, when, how.

As I said before, I don't know what made Crystal stop doing all that hissing, growling and stealing after 4 months. Just trying to think of things that happened during that time.

Sandra