My husband never had a cat until he married me, and then he got two. He married me, knowing how much I love cats!!! Just last night, I was working on him, trying to talk him into a second one, since we lost 17 year old Mimi in July. He told me that Helen and I could pick up a second one on our way home from the cemetary (after we bury him)!!! I obviously am not doing something right!!!!!