I have been lurking around this thread for a long time just watching, but I'm glad you are trying to get Amy to stand on her own two feet again. I could almost imagine the same situation with my nephew and his mom. She doesn't do that stuff, but just the thought is enough to be upsetting.

You are soo soo brave and admirable. I'm so glad you are taking the time and money to help your daughter.

All the best for you, Kim. *hugs*