Obie problems =[

[JuniorxMyxLove]

hmm he probably does...next time I ride him I'm going to try to not be scared and be the boss. Thanks soo much!

[Suki Wingy]

All I can help with is be in the mindset that you ARE going to get that extra stride in, and make sure you do what it takes (whatever you think is right at that moment) to get there. Also make sure you're jumping low. I agree to NEVER catch him in the mouth over a jump. That's called one of the "cardinal sins" of horsemanship. I'd try trotting into the jumps, you say he takes a big spot so I'm assuming you're cantering in. Make sure you sit back and ride him to the fence. I'd also tell your instructor you're nervous, he/she can probably help.
p.s. At our barn we have a small ponu named Obie

[areias]

Okay, so he is slow and lazy just doing flatwork and then he rushes at the jumps? Why are you using a crop over the jumps if he rushes them? He may be trying to escape the crop, realizing that it's coming and trying to jump as quick as he can so he dosen't get hit? If that isn't the problem, I would just try the circling method. Ride in a straight line to a jump, make it obvious that you are going to jump-when you feel him start to speed up (like he is going to rush it) then quickly circle away (without jumping) and try it again until he remains calm while jumping.

And yes, please don't pull the reins over the jump-that might cause him to start refusing. And I would rather be on a horse that rushes than refuses .

A different bit while jumping may be in order. I would look at something not harsher, but something that gets his attention.