Do you hold a grudge?

[BC_MoM]

Sometimes - but I try not to.

[Zippy]

Sometimes I do but it takes to much energy to hold a grudge for long.

[Pawsitive Thinking]

I try not to - life is too short

[dogzr#1]

Usually. Over the internet I do it a lot. In real life, not so much. And I do it even less with animals. Hardly ever do I hold a grudge against an animal.

[JenBKR]

Almost never, I get over most things pretty quickly. Most things are just not worth the time and effort it takes to hold a grudge.

A lot of you are still pretty young, I think that with time, maturity, and experience at least some of you will stop holding grudges as much

[Chilli]

Rarely.
I don't let things get to me.
If something happens that upsets me, I just talk it out and move on.

No use living in the past.

[GreyhoundGirl]

Usually. Over the internet I do it a lot. In real life, not so much. And I do it even less with animals. Hardly ever do I hold a grudge against an animal.

Me too. I've never held a gruge against an animal.

[chocolatepuppy]

I voted sometimes. I usually get over things, in time, it's not worth it. I may not be friends with someone anymore, but I let the 'grudge' go.

[Suki Wingy]

not really, I'd say theirs one person who I don't want anything to do with because of a false claim that Layla bit her, and that was the one time she didn't even try to nip. There are some people who I'm cautious of but I don't totally hate them.

[finn's mom]

I forgive completely and instantly when people ask for forgiveness. And, if they don't, I eventually forgive anyway, and, usually pretty quickly. I don't forget things, and depending on the intimacy of the friendship or relationship, I don't always keep them in my circle of friends. Grudges take up way too much time and energy.

[luvofallhorses]

I am not one to hold grudges UNLESS someone abuses an animal, hurts my family or friends, or hurts a child or a person in any way..otherwise I forgive and forget.

[Vette]

Um..... depends on what it is. normally i let it slide. but some stuff.... sticks with me a while

[sumbirdy]

I do sometimes. It really just depends on the person that makes me mad.

[zoomer]

Me too. I've never held a gruge against an animal.

Thats the same with me, too. I may hold one for a minute, but no longer

[lvpets2002]

I try not to - life is too short

Never Ever with my babies.. Now sometimes with two legged morans & but for not too long.. If I am upset at someone or something then I work it off with some good house cleaning & or get involved with some play time with my babies & puff all grudges gone..