Do you hold a grudge?

[CathyBogart]

I do sometimes. I used to all the time. When I realized that was something I had inherited from my father, I was determined to expunge that trait. I've done a fair job, I think.

[Miss Z]

Usually, yes. If that person makes a heart-felt apology, I respect that, and I think it takes a stronger person to say sorry sincerely to me than to not do something hurtful towards me in the first place.

Other than that, I can hold life-long grudges.

[BC_MoM]

Sometimes - but I try not to.

[Zippy]

Sometimes I do but it takes to much energy to hold a grudge for long.

[Pawsitive Thinking]

I try not to - life is too short

[dogzr#1]

Usually. Over the internet I do it a lot. In real life, not so much. And I do it even less with animals. Hardly ever do I hold a grudge against an animal.

[JenBKR]

Almost never, I get over most things pretty quickly. Most things are just not worth the time and effort it takes to hold a grudge.

A lot of you are still pretty young, I think that with time, maturity, and experience at least some of you will stop holding grudges as much

[GreyhoundGirl]

Usually. Over the internet I do it a lot. In real life, not so much. And I do it even less with animals. Hardly ever do I hold a grudge against an animal.

Me too. I've never held a gruge against an animal.

[lvpets2002]

I try not to - life is too short

Never Ever with my babies.. Now sometimes with two legged morans & but for not too long.. If I am upset at someone or something then I work it off with some good house cleaning & or get involved with some play time with my babies & puff all grudges gone..

[IRescue452]

I wouldn't hold a grudge against the raccoon. The pigeon was domesticated and captive and didn't stand a fighting chance, not the raccoons fault. Raccoons ate my sister's baby rabbits when she had them in a pen outside. They couldn't escape the cage that humans put them in.