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    I think its a good idea as well. I listen to my husband's frustrations of how the kids spend more time flirting than they do studying. The girls are all hanging their breasts out to attract the boys. He can't say anything like "please button up your top" because if he did, that means he noticed (believe me, its hard NOT to notice when some of these girls are a D cup, wearing a pushup bra and plunging neckline - all in whats supposed to be the school's uniform!)

    I also hear my daughter's frustration when she and the other girls want to learn but a group of boys are busy goofing off and making lewd comments all throughout the class. Both my girls boyfriends actually attend different schools than they go to. They don't rely on school to be their primary social factor. In fact my youngest doesn't have any friends from school - all her friends are from her sports teams.

    I helped my husband with a college paper last year on different learning styles and its proven that boys learn differently than girls. It would be great to get them into environments where their learning styles are emphasized to have a greater impact.

    School is for learning first and foremost, socialization comes as a secondary benefit.

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    There's plenty of girls-only and boys-only schools around here, in fact I nearly went to one myself. In the state system, single-sex schools generally out-perform mixed schools by far (in the private sector, like my school, there is generally no difference).

    My school actually used to be a boys school, it's only been co-ed since 2001, so there are no more than 20 girls in each year. I think there's 14 girls in my year to about 100 boys.

    Personally though, I think a strict school uniform has a better effect on keeping boys and girls apart during school than separation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss Z
    Personally though, I think a strict school uniform has a better effect on keeping boys and girls apart during school than separation.
    I think both are a good idea!


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    I think it would be a great idea. I sure wish they could have done it when I was in school.
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    I am a big advocate of single sex classrooms. Better for both.

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    I went to an all girls college prep (high school).
    While at the time we complained bitterly in hindsight, I LOVED it and it was the best possible thing for me. I went to a "mixed" grade school which I think is good to develop social skills and frankly, learn to stand up for yourself i.e. be more vocal with the boys in the class. However in high school I loved not being under pressure and distracted with boys around.
    There was a local "all boys" school that our schools mixed social activities with. I think it's a stereotype that girls will be 'at each others throats' or bitchy with each other just because they are all girls. If anything, lack of boys around made us less 'bitchy' due to the lack of competing with each other for male attention. We competed on academic levels.
    I also think it made us more independent with better self-esteem. The support system was much stronger I think.
    Mind you it didn't keep some of the girls from getting pregnant and messing up in general but those girls would have probably ended up in the same boat or worse in a mixed environment.
    My nieces will definitely go to all girl schools for high school.
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    And they can socialize all they want after school. The point of the classroom is to learn, not socialize. When I teach my students are in their desks and they are listening to me or to other students. We use the talking stick to make sure that only one person is talking in deference to the stick and the person doing the talking. We rarely talk about who is doing what after school....that's hall talk....totally different animal. The fewer the distractions the better. Comparing mixed workplace and mixed school is like comparing apples to oranges...we are talking about hormonal adolescents in the classroom who are NOT adults who still are learning to be adults....in the work place (in a perfect world) you are dealing with adults who SHOULD be able to control their hormones and work productively.


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    Well, I'm not sure about middle/high school, but I don't think that elementary students should be separated.

    I'm not talking about socializing as in talking about the latest gossip, but as in learning to be polite/ learning basic manners. Many children do not learn this at home. I am currently getting my certificate to teach elementary school, and I work in a school with 2nd and 3rd graders. Learning to be respectful to each other and to adults is important, and I think learning to be respectful to the opposite sex is valuable. Many activities for young children are designed not only to teach them facts but to teach them social skills they need. Many characteristics that people carry with them throughout their lifespans are developed in childhood.

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    In my shcool, grade 8 and down are together. After that, they are seperate. GREAT, oh well, I can't say I'll miss some of the guys in my class. They behave really childish.
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