Really need opinions....

[Cataholic]

The military would be a BAD idea for someone with social problems, trust me.

WAIT a moment there, LH! If assuming what you said is true, then, well, uh....LOLOL..,.I am totally just teasing you, which I hope you know.

Anyhow, Casey's mom- do you know what the meaning of insanity is? Doing the same thing over and over again, and expecting a different result.

You have been in a similar situation with your neice, what, ten other times? YOU doing the work, YOU making the calls, YOU forcing/shoving/giving her ideas....it didn't work before. WHY would it work this time?

Give her two months notice, and then Show. Her. The. Door.

It is tearing you up, adding more stress to your household, and not your responsibility. She isn't going to change for you. She needs to change for her.

[caseysmom]

A two months notice is a good idea, unfortunately that would put us at christmas. I think I will tell her by the first of the year, I know its a rough time of year but I guess oh well.

A job in a hospital would be her dream job and I don't think she minds odd shifts.