I have thought about making her a list everyday.
Caseysmom....this, in just my opinion, would be just one more thing you would do that she would ignore.

I think you ought to get the uncle much more involved.

She is not going to change, the way things are right now.

She has no friends at church?

Hon, you have done so much and it is admirable...but I am wondering about her getting assessed for something. It seems she has problems that are beyond a do-it-yourself situation.

I hope you get someone else involved...

hugs!