I think the girl needs to appy anywhere that she can get a job. I'm sure she wouldn't be in harms way at either of those places. Its amazing to me that she can get through school but she cant get off her butt to help you or say thank you for all you've done for her. I bet there are days you feel like tearing your hair out, hers to for that matter.

Are things going any better with you daughter? Aren't teenagers fun?