Would this upset you?

[sparks19]

Not sure if you were referring to me or Debby but I am frustrated right now too. My teenager is acting out and my hubby blames me and it is really annoying, he works too much and hasn't been fathering enough so it must be nice to sit back and blame me. This and with the stress of my niece and my brothers estate...I may not make it to 26 years married...I am really fed up

Teenagers are a handful even with two parents raising them constantly. I don't have any but I sure remember what I was like as a Teenager and I regret every minute I treated my mom badly..... Just keep in the back of your mind that ONE day you will be their best friend. I know my mom is my best friend. They will grow up and when they become adults they will NEED your advice. My mom doesn't interfere if not asked but I ask her all the time because I am not always sure. She has even volunteered to nanny for me for the first few months after our first child because she knows how overwhelmed I get just thinking about it. Just keep telling yourself "one day she will see from the eyes of a mother"

Good luck Teenagers can be a bugger

[caseysmom]

Thanks Sparks I know one day she will look back and have some regret, I just wish she didn't have to go through this.