Quote Originally Posted by catnapper
We have no idea what to do - if we sue it'll look like we're money hungry.
Who cares about appearances? At this point, your family's financial security is at risk. If your husband ends up being permanently disabled, everything will come crashing down. There are a lot of people depending upon you guys right now.

I don't know any lawyers and have never sued anyone, but I'd ask friends and family if they know anyone that they recommend. It may take a long time to settle this, but you guys need help with medical and car bills. I say go for it.