I couldn't vote. I certainly don't think you are a diva, but I just don't see a problem with your hubby.

Jess (K9soul) has said everything I would say and more, and much better I might add. To be honest, I don't know why this man let her get away.

We are all human. We all forget. The fact that hubby had a card for you ready to view when you woke up and tried to send flowers would have been more than enough for me.

I don't know about anyone else but buying gifts for people is very hard for me. I often don't know what to buy and I put it off because I am always thinking that eventually I'll think of *the perfect gift.* This could be why your hubby waited so long. Years ago my hubby used to buy me perfume. Often I couldn't wear it as he likes much stronger scents than I do and sometimes the perfume he would buy me would give me a headache. He sort of lost his zeal after that because he was afraid of disappointing me again.

I am the one in the family who enjoys yard work. He works in the yard because he has to and I work in the yard because I like it. My birthday is in the fall, and one year he bought be a leaf blower for my birthday. I thought it was very clever of him and appreciated it very much. My co-workers at that time thought it was a horrible gift. They thought he should have bought jewelry or something more feminine. My point really is that we are all different and our relationships with our spouses are all different. I think it is more about how we are treated on a daily basis rather than what we give or receive on a special day.