I think u should just get over it myself, not just cause im a guy. I buy my wife everything she wants and then some, but she never goes out and just buys me anything and i could care less. I bought her a Toyota 4 Runner for christmas last year and i cant remember what i got, u should do what we usually do for b-days christmas anniversary ect. i give my wife about $500 dollars a little less or more for christmas and she buys what she wants. She isnt helpless, not saying u are, but she is a grown woman. This year i got Daisy in august for my b-day which is in september, i gave her $300 dollars which is what Daisy cost in september and her b-day is in July. She never said a word except that she didnt care as long as the kids were took care of. The only two gifts i have ever bought her that she didnt know about is the 4 Runner and a charm with my 2 kids picture on it. So no offense but just be happy with what GOD has blessed u with (ur husband and kids), and in my opinion ur not being a DIVA but u are being a BRAT which is what kids are. I hope u dont get mad but u did ask what we thought.