My birthday this year? I got a free meal at our favorite restaurant.... and I paid for HIS meal! I didn't get a card. I did get a silly birthday serenade in the morning. Then that was it. His birthday is 10 days after mine so he basically got the same thing that he gave me. Of course our finances are pretty awful right now so there's not much we CAN give each other, but even when we did have some cash in the bank, birthdays, anniversaries, etc were all alike. At Christmas he runs out and gets me the same thing: a new Charles Dickens house for my collection and maybe something else... like last year I wanted a jacket that was on sale. I handed him a slip of paper with the size, color, and location of it in the store. I was soooo surprised when I opened it and it was actually what I'd asked for~ ROTFL

I didn't vote because I wouldn't be upset, but I don't think you're being a diva.