I have been taking her places. She trusts me. Atleast I think she does. I'm guessing it's just worse when we are out and she thinks she is in trouble. Because at home when she knows she's being good, I can put my hands all over her. And she loves it. She will roll on her back for tummy rubs. And everytime I walk in the door, even if it was from taking the trash out, she's excited to see me as if I had been gone all day.