The other, which I REALLY want to wear, is a black cardigan sweater (very fine knit) with sequin roses down the front. Its so pretty and very slimming too (well as slim as a plus size gal can look ) and I wear a light rosey pink fine knit sweater underneath it, pulling out the rose colored sequins. I would pair it with either black pants or a black skirt.
You really want to wear this, so put in on!! You know you are going to look fabulous darling. You don't have to dress like everyone else or to please anyone else but YOU!

Have a great time