yes she is still scared of him, not cowaring in the corner but she groomed him very cautiously, like trying to make up with him or make him like her. and left the room as soon as he looked at her. she had always been the boss of all the cats so this is different behavior for her. it's hard to say about the alpha cat with them. she still seems to be alpha to 2 of the cats, one is her littermate (they always get along, it has just always been that way with them, and they are still close)and the other one was a kitten the same time the one that turned mean was a kitten. the 3rd female seems to be on the same level as her, they seem to be rivals for attention, but neither one is above or below the other. as for the one that turned on her, he is a big cat, and does have a big head so does that make him an alpha cat? the funny thing is, he is tame with his brother and the other 2 girls. so who knows. he is only mean to the one and that is I think because she was mean to him one too many times and he got tired of it. she does stay away from him and the other except her littermate as much as possible because she doesn't like the multi cat house I guess.

I also wonder about this alpha cat thing, about the head size, what if a litter of kittens are the same size, then how do they determine who is alpha?