Quote Originally Posted by Randi

My question is, once he's there, should I stay for bit, or leave shortly after?

Also, should I give him 2 mg. of Valium?
ENJOY your Sleepover, Fister!

Stay or Leave?
See what he does ... if he runs & hides ... I'd think just sayin G-bye and letting
him deal with it might be less stressful.
If he hangs around either one of you Gals - encourage him and stay for a while.

I hope your Sitter / Friend is willing to deal with a *whiney* Kat for a couple days ...
Fister might not think this is the Greatest of Ideas --- and try to tell the world that
he's not too Happie about it.

And she should keep a *sharp eye* out for his possibly >marking< to display his displeasure.

Consider some small, eye-level, "Remember the KAT!" reminder signs for BOTH sides
of her outside or hall doors - so she thinks to *look* for da Kat before opening a door.

"Try not to worry, Mom" ... Enjoy your Holiday!!