Thanks to all of you for your continued support and prayers. This is definately the MOST traumatic part of the move, and I haven't felt able to move forward with anything in a positive way without having Ally and Connor sorted out first.

Also a HUGE thankyou to all of you who have offered to assist with the costs of transporting Connor to Cheryl.

I just checked my paypal account, and as it is based on my South African credit card, I cannot use it to RECEIVE payments - only MAKE them.

If I receive overseas checks they take my bank 6 WEEKS to clear and they cost $28 PER CHECK in bank fees . Also for PTers to wire money to me here will cost them bank fees for every transaction.....

The only solution I can think of (as Catty1 suggested) is to have someone on PT act as a "banker" for me, so everyone could send their donations to one person (preferably via Paypal as it's probably the easiest) then that person could withdraw the funds as a single amount and wire to me, so only incurring ONE bank charge in total.

If anyone is prepared to do this please let me know.

Thanks again to all my dear friends here!

(((HUGS)))

Julie