Hugs for you sweetie. I'm sorry your relationship with your mom is not what is should be. I am glad that your dad is there for you. It sounds to me like your mom has issues and is simply incapable of dealing with anyone elses. Knowing this, if you change the way you deal with her, leaving your issues to be handled by your dad (who you know will help you), you may find you get along better with your mom when things are just general. Just my thoughts.