Jen - for me it's always been a case of, I will take her if she is unadoptable. I knew/know that she would be happy enough with my downstairs social-ferals and/or behavior problem cats, but I also know she won't get the frequent attention of my upstairs cats. If she is adoptable, and she craves attention, then she should be adopted to someone else.

With Catullus' brother just showing signs of ringworm, it won't be possible for me to take her for another month probably, if she needs to come to me. I think, as you say, you will have the task of monitoring her litter box behavior and taking her to the vet for a urinalysis. I have the name of your vet, and you've already said you will put her on One-by-One status so you get their discount, and I can just call and charge it. You have taken on all the care responsibilities so I want to continue to do my part. If her behavior is a problem, she can still come to me. Between us, we can assure her of a decent future at the very least.