What to ask?

[Laura's Babies]

What can you do to make him even happier?

Has the baby being there upset him?

Does he know how much you love him?

[mruffruff]

I would ask about his health---maybe there is a problem no one has considered.

I learned that my cat has a touchy stomach when I thought she had a bladder problem. Switched everyone to sensitive stomach food and all seem to be better.

[catmandu]

Do you feel well Allen?
Do you not use your box for a reason?
Are you happy here, and how can I make you happier?
Do you know just how much I love you?

[kuhio98]

I'd go for general. The specific questions lead the communicator too much (in my opinion). Allen may want to talk about something else.

~How are you feeling?
~Is there anything bothering you?
~Are you happy?
~Is there anything you want me to know?

Then if the peeing issue doesn't come up, you can get more specific. That's just the way I'd do it because while I believe in animal communicators, I would need validation that they are connecting with Allen. If Allen says something about the peeing issue, or the baby, or his room, or going to the vet, then you'd more convinced that Allen is doing the talking.

[krazyaboutkatz]

I'd also stay with general questions. When I had Starr's reading done, I wanted to know if he was the one who was pooping outside of the litterbox and why he was doing this. From these questions I learned a lot about his personality and insecurities. I'm sure you'll learn a lot about Allen and hopefully the information will help you in the future.

[Reachoutrescue]

I know it has been said before, but, ask If he knows you love him. Does he feel sick? Is he unhappy? Good luck. Please keep us posted.

[catnapper]

Thanks everyone.

This is the email I sent her this afternoon:

Hi again,
Ok, I decided to leave more open questions, because I feel that will help me understand him more - rather than have him fill in the blanks, I'd like to have him explain himself without me prompting him (he has a lot to explain! LOL.)

Here we go:
Is he happy?
Is there anything I can do to make him happier?
Does he feel any physical pain anywhere? If so, where? What does it feel like?
Does anything stress him out? If so, what? Who?
Is anything bothering him?
Is there anything he wants me to know?
Does he realize everything I do is to keep him healthy and happy?
Does he know I'd do anything for him?
Does he feel ownership of anything particular?
Is he the one who's been "bad"? If not, who is?

and one specific question:
Why did he react like he did when my aunt saw him a few months ago (curious minds want to know!)


The question about my aunt will tell me if she's for real more than anything else! LOL