nope not to harsh at all! when I found out that my friends mom got a designer mutt only days after I told her about Electra, and I was at a b-day party that night and found out the breeder of the deigner mutts was AT the party? now I am notmally a shy person who stays quiet about everything, right in the middle of the group I just started right in at her, I think they were a little shocked! she tried to defend her self saying "oh it was an accident they wernt supposd to get at each other" etc.. y I read the ad in the paper, they had TWO of these designer mutt litters at once, one litter was "scottie-poos" and the other was "bichon scottie-poo's" ok so what both her bichone and poodle went in heat together and your scottie accedently got one and your scottie-poo(where that one come from?) happend to get her bichon? likley story lol