not even a little related to animals!

[coco-bean]

that makes alot of sense actually...like i totally think that could be it!

[Catty1]

If you still have these dreams about him, it shows that you want more than friends, and I think your ex senses that.

My suggestion? No contact. Do not write, phone, email, text, anything. YOu have to get him out of your system romantically before you can ever think about friendship.

I totally understand that you want to be able to be his friend. But if you love him - give him what HE wants. If he wanted to be with you, he would be, as a friend or otherwise.

If you only think about your feelings and what you want - that is selfish.

And this is totally unfair to your present boyfriend - you are cheating on him in your mind and heart. What did your present boyfriend do to deserve this dishonesty?

You might try being single for a while til you get 'partnership' figured out.

JMO

[coco-bean]

but the weird thing is...i havent talk to him in about 5 or 6 months....i apologized (actually ment it too) that last time i talk to him but that was the only thing that was said, and he accepted my apology and said thank you, and that was it! so thats why it's so weird to me...i dont talk to him, i dont see him, nothin! weird huh!?! haha

[Karen]

but the weird thing is...i havent talk to him in about 5 or 6 months....i apologized (actually ment it too) that last time i talk to him but that was the only thing that was said, and he accepted my apology and said thank you, and that was it! so thats why it's so weird to me...i dont talk to him, i dont see him, nothin! weird huh!?! haha

Obviously, you still have feeling for this guy. You should either do your best to give up on him, acknowledge that it truly is over, and concentrate on yourself and even your current "boyfriend," if you care for him at all. You are young, there's no sense in "crying over spilt milk" at your age.