not even a little related to animals!

[JenBKR]

Is this a family member? Karen had some good ideas. Could you have a third person mediate? Sorry you are going through this, if you ever need to talk my PM box is always open!

[coco-bean]

thank you for the good idea's! but this person is an ex-boyfriend of mine! you know what they say about, there's one love of your life? well i had mine, and due to some inappropriate things that had occured, i lost him! i dont even know how to start a conversation with him, i would just like to on some level...a friend!

[BOBS DAD]

...usually "not" a good idea. Time. Time heals all wounds they say. You might want to simply let them know that you care about them and think of them fondly (if so) and that if they are ever interested in talking, you will be there for them. Find a way to say it in earnest... and then you have to let it go.

Sometime, somewhere he might be ready. And I mean that may be 25 years from now.

[JenBKR]

Did you try telling him you would like to be friends? I understand how you feel, believe me, I actually tried that with an ex of mine. In the end it didn't work out, and I have since moved on, but it's not always that easy. Will he talk to you at all?

[coco-bean]

depending on the subject and if it's TRUELY important! i think he needs alot more time, but night after nite for almost 2 years now it's a new dream about him, and in each dream we get back together and work through it and oh man, it's great, then i wake up(no offense at all to my "now" boyfriend) but look over and am truely disappointed in myself for letting it get that far, and not being with the one my heart wants! and Honestly...i'd wait 25 years to be with him! time, time, time...sometimes it seems like it takes to long you know! but thats okay....

[jackie]

Why are you with man that you don't really want to be with.

What a waste of time for both of you. If you are interested in getting back together with your ex, you need to split up with your current boyfriend and work from there.

[coco-bean]

i am interested in my now boyfriend, it's not like i hate him, or dislike him...i truely like him! but i cant help these dreams i have all the time! if i didnt have the dreams i'd be okay, i wouldnt think about my ex nearly as much but the dreams bring back up feelings! Gr! haha! What are your thoughts on what dreams mean?

[JenBKR]

Well I'm not an expert, so I could be wrong, but it sounds to me like your subconscious is thinking about your ex an awful lot, and those thoughts are coming out in your dreams.