Very aggrivated right now!!!(9/3/09) UPDATED!

[Lady's Human]

People who abuse animals frequently go on to abuse humans. End it now.

[luvofallhorses]

I agree with Lady's Human, please end the relationship NOW! if he hurt your dog, you could be next. I don't want to scare you, but that's abuse and you or your pets shouldn't have to tolerate it, either! what an a**!! I would love to kick him and then some! I hope your Coco will be okay and if she has to go to the vet tell your vet EXACTLY what happened as you told us and please, please end the relationship now!! walk away and don't look back.

[coco-bean]

what do i do if he try's to take them from me?!? he already told me before that if we broke up, he'd take coco for sure! I dont want to loose them!

[luvofallhorses]

what do i do if he try's to take them from me?!? he already told me before that if we broke up, he'd take coco for sure! I dont want to loose them!

well don't let him. the dogs are both yours, right? just leave and take them with you, but just please be careful! Is there a friend that you can stay with, with your dogs or with a family member?

[sanford8916]

You could tell him if he tries to take the dogs you will report him for animal abuse! Good luck to you and your pups! Let us know how Coco is in the morning! Poor baby.

[labmomma]

This Andy fella sounds dangerous to me. If he'll abuse one of your dogs then you aren't safe around him either. Do the dogs belong to you? Do you have a friend or family member you can move in with for awhile? Where you live, is it your place or his? If it's yours, kick his a** out and take out a restraining order on him. It sounds to me like he's playing mind games with you and is manipulating you which is, in itself, very dangerous.
Best of luck to you, Tonya, and may God give you the strength to do what is right for you and your babies.
Labmomma

[coco-bean]

elizabethann is he only 18, just graduated last year! so yes he is VERY immature, and he does get jealous very VERY easy! and labmomma i believe the dogs are mine rightfully, i pay their vet bills, i sent in their registration(with the fee), feed them, bathe them, potty train them, i do basically everything for them so i consider myself their rightful owner! Andy bought the dogs for me as a "gift" but he still thinks their his, especially coco, even tho she was my birthday present!

[Lady's Human]

send them somewhere where he won't know where they are. Threats like that are an even bigger indication that you need to get out now.

[luvofallhorses]

send them somewhere where he won't know where they are. Threats like that are an even bigger indication that you need to get out now.

agreed. please don't let this go on any longer!

[coco-bean]

Today seems to be okay for coco! She was a little slow moving last nite and had no interest in playing after came back home! Today she is running, jumping on the couch and thinks she can handle any set of steps with her wets paws, which she seemed to forget she falls when her paws get wet!(it rained outside last nite)

[elizabethann]

If you really love this "man" can you ask him to sit down for a heart to heart talk? Let him know how much your pets mean to you and that when he deliberatly hurts them, he is hurting you? If he seriously can't understand a word you're saying, then I would document all of the times he has hurt your pets. I would then bring your pets to a family member who you know & trust very very well. Then I would ask him to leave. I would change the locks on all the doors. If he tries to take the pets away, I would get a damn good lawyer and show him/her all the documented times he's hurt your pets.

How old is your boyfriend anyhow? He sounds like he is very imature and is jealous of the attention you give your pets. Someone on the board said something about child abuse and it's true - people who hurt animals will hurt their children.

I hope he hasn't hurt you.

Take care.