Very aggrivated right now!!!(9/3/09) UPDATED!

[coco-bean]

that all sounds like awesome input to me! Im so happy when i read the nice things you all say about people! Just makes me very !!! thanks alot for everyones input and ill take it ALL into consideratioN!!!!

[Daisy and Delilah]

I'm very sorry to hear that your boyfriend doesn't take interest in Coco and Cainan like you do. I feel your pain. I care so much about my pet's needs i.e. making them feel important, playing with them, praising them regularly, and generally letting them know how much I love them. I know all of us here at PT are like that. I would find it very difficult to have a partner that didn't have the same or similar ideals that I have. I'm also a huge stickler on not giving our pets mixed signals. Everything should be constantly loving and always consistent. I sincerely hope your BF gets better with your dogs(and you). You sound like too nice of a person to go through what you're experiencing. Best wishes on seeing improvements soon

[coco-bean]

Tonite my bf(his name is andy), well we've been fighting for quite some time and i havent been feeling the best so my mood is a little touchy anyways, but anyways, i wanted to go to the park tonite so i asked andy if he wanted to go with? he said No! so i said fine we're going anyways! After i had gotten my shoes on and grabbed my keys andy decided he should probably go too! So we headed (in my car) to the park about 7 or 8 blocks away(it's a school playground with a HUGE open field to play fetch in) and we started walking around, of course andy is on one of his kicks and usually it means, "dont talk to tonya(thats me) and just keep walking, not throwing the ball, not running with them, not nothing. so anyways after we've been walking for a good 15 minutes we made our way back up this hill to the actual play ground with swings and play sets! coco likes to go down the slide's so i walked up into the play set with her and she would go down the slide, then she noticed andy was swinging just a few feet from her, so she went over to him and started walking under him as he was swinging(the swing was no more then 8 or 9 inches off the ground by the way) So i sat on the opposite swing(not swinging, just sitting there watching) and coco kept running under him, and i kept saying andy you better be careful, she's ducking from you but your feet are in the way! Of course he doesnt say one word to me because thats just how he is! and not 20 seconds later coco moves to get out of his way on the upward swing part, and before she could get to the other side of the swing closer to me, andy comes barreling downward in the swing crashing right into her! Andy starts laughing and laughing, as coco is crying and cry and limping up off the sand onto the grass! I got off the swing and ran over to here (every step she took she was crying more and more) i grabbed her and layed her on my lap rubbing her leg that she was limping on, telling her it's okay coco! andy finally manages to stop laughing and get off the swing, as he starts walking over to us I most definately said my peace to him, (Andy i swear if you broke her leg, im gonna kick your ***)!!!! he says nothing, go figure! after coco stopped crying i said we're going home, NOW! i walked full stern towards the car as coco hobbled in front of me(she seemed to think she was okay, so she attempted to play with cainan the entire way to the car) we got in my car and came home!!!
Andy just doesnt care, GGRRR...it makes me so mad!!!! That was pretty much the last straw with me! I havent talked to him the whole time we've been home, other than he asked me to go to a movie with him and i said no! i dont know what to do! I mean if i break up with him, he has no where to go! and Im affraid that he's going to take coco and cainan from me, because he paid for them(only to buy them, nothing more)! I am just confused right now!
Coco is still limping but not as bad, if she is still limping tomorrow, im going to have to call my vet(since it's sunday) and ask him what he thinks i should do!
Thanks everyone for listening to me vent some more!!

[Lady's Human]

People who abuse animals frequently go on to abuse humans. End it now.

[luvofallhorses]

I agree with Lady's Human, please end the relationship NOW! if he hurt your dog, you could be next. I don't want to scare you, but that's abuse and you or your pets shouldn't have to tolerate it, either! what an a**!! I would love to kick him and then some! I hope your Coco will be okay and if she has to go to the vet tell your vet EXACTLY what happened as you told us and please, please end the relationship now!! walk away and don't look back.

[coco-bean]

what do i do if he try's to take them from me?!? he already told me before that if we broke up, he'd take coco for sure! I dont want to loose them!

[luvofallhorses]

what do i do if he try's to take them from me?!? he already told me before that if we broke up, he'd take coco for sure! I dont want to loose them!

well don't let him. the dogs are both yours, right? just leave and take them with you, but just please be careful! Is there a friend that you can stay with, with your dogs or with a family member?

[Lady's Human]

send them somewhere where he won't know where they are. Threats like that are an even bigger indication that you need to get out now.