That was my first impression too.....it's almost impossible to change someone, so you'd have to accept him the way he is. Is that what you want for yourself? I know how difficult it can be with two different training philosophies, my husband and I had different opinions on training Roscoe, but when he saw that my way was working much better (and having our trainer tell him that also) changed his mind and his behavior. Maybe if you keep doing what you are doing with your dogs and your boyfriend sees that it works, he'll change his mind too. Good luck!Originally Posted by labmomma
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Maybe you should sit down and have a nice conversation and dicuss it?
!!! thanks alot for everyones input and ill take it ALL into consideratioN!!!!
Tonite my bf(his name is andy), well we've been fighting for quite some time and i havent been feeling the best so my mood is a little touchy anyways, but anyways, i wanted to go to the park tonite so i asked andy if he wanted to go with? he said No! so i said fine we're going anyways! After i had gotten my shoes on and grabbed my keys andy decided he should probably go too! So we headed (in my car) to the park about 7 or 8 blocks away(it's a school playground with a HUGE open field to play fetch in) and we started walking around, of course andy is on one of his kicks and usually it means, "dont talk to tonya(thats me) and just keep walking, not throwing the ball, not running with them, not nothing. so anyways after we've been walking for a good 15 minutes we made our way back up this hill to the actual play ground with swings and play sets! coco likes to go down the slide's so i walked up into the play set with her and she would go down the slide, then she noticed andy was swinging just a few feet from her, so she went over to him and started walking under him as he was swinging(the swing was no more then 8 or 9 inches off the ground by the way) So i sat on the opposite swing(not swinging, just sitting there watching) and coco kept running under him, and i kept saying andy you better be careful, she's ducking from you but your feet are in the way! Of course he doesnt say one word to me because thats just how he is! and not 20 seconds later coco moves to get out of his way on the upward swing part, and before she could get to the other side of the swing closer to me, andy comes barreling downward in the swing crashing right into her! Andy starts laughing and laughing, as coco is crying and cry and limping up off the sand onto the grass! I got off the swing and ran over to here (every step she took she was crying more and more) i grabbed her and layed her on my lap rubbing her leg that she was limping on, telling her it's okay coco! andy finally manages to stop laughing and get off the swing, as he starts walking over to us I most definately said my peace to him, (Andy i swear if you broke her leg, im gonna kick your ***)!!!! he says nothing, go figure! after coco stopped crying i said we're going home, NOW! i walked full stern towards the car as coco hobbled in front of me(she seemed to think she was okay, so she attempted to play with cainan the entire way to the car) we got in my car and came home!!!
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