PLEASE make the male kitten go "Poof" too!!! You did the right thing. I did the same thing once, and it was the RIGHT thing to do for the cat. He now lives in a home INSIDE, where he is adored. At his other "home," the cat was outside,never fed, and neglected. Please get the male!!! He will never be neutered and will be outside. I work with heroin addicts and only one thing is important to them: DRUGS!!!! SAve that baby!!!PLEASE!!!