Chihuahuas Fighting

[catnapper]

Is one the instigator more so than the other? Often I find when problems arise suddenly, that the one starting the fights actually has an underlying health issue. She's feeling vulnerable and lashes out when another dog is too close, etc.

[Ray'sMom]

Queenie is fairly large for a Chi., stocky, and generally very sturdily built. She is a classic "apple dome." Sophia is much smaller, very slender, a "deer-head" Chihuahua and appears to be part something else, perhaps small terrier. All of our dogs are rescues, so there is a lot about their pasts about which we do not know. When we got the dogs, Queenie was perhaps 2 years of age, and Sophia was was about a year old. We got them about 2 months apart (from Animal Control's "death row" ) The instigator of the fights is ALWAYS the smaller Sophia. I've had them both to the vets for check-up. The vet gave me no help at all re. this behavior.

[butrrfly23]

I don't know if I have a solution for you (at least not just yet) but here are a few things to consider and some things to try...

How often do you take all the dogs out on a walk together? If the smaller dogs can't walk as fast as the larger ones, do they also get a separate daily walk with you? If they are not getting enough exercise it could just be boredom & frustration. Many people just figure if they have a big yard their dogs are getting enough exercise but walks are a mental as well as physical challenge to follow their leader as they walk.

Has anything at all changed in the house since the onset of their fighting? Any new pack members or changes with existing pack members? Stresses at work or school or something that might be making you or your family on edge? Sometimes when owners are stressed out over something, the dogs pick up on it and their behavior changes.

I am also curious about the fact that they are only doing it when you're around and that they seem to be fighting over your attention. It seems to imply a dominance battle in control of you. If that's the case, your dominance might be in question by these two for some reason. Maybe your dominance is not getting communicated to them lately for some reason or maybe it's not being communicated consistently. The role of alpha has to be reinforced every day in everything not just at training time but also at eating time, going outside time, playtime, etc. you should always be first/alpha and they should always have to follow rules you have set. Again, being under stress could affect the energy they're sensing from you. Sometimes even just worrying yourself over this new behavior they're displaying can perpetuate that exact behavior you're wanting to stop. I know for a fact there have been occasions where my anticipating some behavior of one of my dogs ended up sending them a message that I was unsure or anxious about it and that encouraged the same behavior.

It would probably be good if you could find a way to safely break up their fights and to make them understand that it is not going to be tolerated by you. Maybe using the gloves you keep on hand or using a tool such as a broom or something to get in between them when they start up would a safe way to do it. If you try to break them up and get bit, never get scared and back away from it, but stay there until you get what you want (them relaxing). And anytime they start to fight over you, once the fight breaks up, put them both in a Down to make them relax (preferably not facing each other where they could start sending aggressive messages to each other with eye contact). Once it's over, sit back down near them but completely ignore them both, especially if they try to come up and sit in your lap. Pretty soon they'll realize that neither of them can demand your attention (which puts you back in the dominant role). Later on when they're both calm, you can call them both to you for some affection, but only if they sit nicely together. As soon as they start acting like they're vieing for your attention, start ignoring them again.

As far as the treating one dog as more dominant than the other, I've read about that before, but have never done that myself. I've always treated both dogs exactly the same. As long as they behave and follow my rules, they both get equal feeding, equal attention, equal play, etc. I figure, as the alpha, it shouldn't really matter to me who the other dogs decide is more dominant than them, all that matters, as the alpha, is that all the other dogs submit to me. From there, they can figure out their own hierarchy, they just have to do it within the confines of the rules I've set for the pack (no fighting).

Sorry for the long-winded post!

[Ray'sMom]

You have certainly raised some interesting questions and solutions. I have had an increase in my work load, plus I am working on an advanced degree, so I am not home NEARLY as much as I used to be. When I do get home, I tend to "cootchie-coo" the dogs a lot more than I perhaps should. Hey, I am over-"cootchie-cooing" everyone, since I am so often absent . Could it be that they are interpreting this as a slip in my pack status? I or my husband take the dogs for walks twice a day, the big ones separately, then the two Chis. Also, I and my son set aside special play time (hide and seek, fetch, tug-o-war, sit-stand-stay practice, etc.). I will certainly think about your suggestions. I really, really appreciate your help!

[Daisy and Delilah]

I don't have any advice to add to the other posts but I wanted to tell you that I really feel for you. This must be about to drive you crazy. I know it would really bother me if my girls got that bad. I do have a similar situation but I've seen no blood(yet). I have two Chis also-both female. I got Daisy first as a tiny puppy(she's the small one), while I still had my RB, Killer(another female Chi). After I lost Killer, I adopted Delilah(larger one) from an elderly woman-she was two years old. I took Daisy with me to meet Delilah for the first time. Daisy loved Delilah and they got along great for awhile. Suddenly, Daisy seemed to try to take on the alpha dog role and began to bully Delilah for really no reason. They have had a couple of bad fights and one really bad one. I had to pull them apart. The only thing I can figure is that Daisy is in some pain occasionally with the luxated patella in her back leg. Perhaps she strikes out at Delilah because of it. On the other side of the coin, Delilah will sometimes take a dominate role over Daisy, as if she's paying her back. Delilah is such a sweetheart, I don't think she would ever have started instigating the fights if Daisy hadn't shown aggression first. So, in reality, like your Chis, my smallest one is the main player in instigation as well. It's very frustrating and it makes you feel helpless. I wish you the best and hope you find a solution very soon.
p.s. I would love to see pictures of them.

[Ray'sMom]

Thank you for your post. Now, I do not feel as if I am alone. You know exactly how bad it is when those little dogs get into it! Is this a characterstic of Chis, or females? The other female, a Rottie mix, pretty much stays out of it and is a mellow dog -- a low growl or a stern look and the other dogs leave her alone. I do love both my Chis., but my husband is making noises as if we need to find a good, NEW home for one of them . If I keep them apart for long periods of time, it just seems to make it worse, as if the little Sophia has been saving up all day to get in the larger Queenie's face. I might add that Queenie is constantly by my side and at my feet, around the house and yard and during walks, but lately Sophia has started to run around me, ahead of me, is leaning on me, etc. and she needs constant reminding as to who is the leader. I think Sophia may be trying to make a bid for a higher status. It is driving me CRAZY! I will definately consider all of the suggestions presented here. Once again, Pet Talk members have proved an invaluable source of great ideas and supprt.

[Daisy and Delilah]

Sorry, I forgot to mention it earlier but.....Hi and welcome to Pet Talk!! My name is Terry and Mom to the fabulous Daisy and Delilah I don't know if this is characteristic behavior for Chis--male or female. I would love to know. I think Chis are pretty territorial, so it's quite possible. They aren't the easiest dogs to train either. No matter what you're trying to teach them. They're stubborn, head strong, and feisty, among other things Maybe their natural personalities make them like this? I'm not sure about any of it now that I think about it. I'm shocked that your Chis get along with your other dogs. My girls don't get along well with large dogs at all. Everytime they see my kid's dogs, they're so hyper and barky, I have to seperate them quickly. However, most of the time, they're pretty good girls and a pleasure to be around. I did think of one more thing. Did your girls start their original fighting when food was involved? I know D and D's first fight was over something I was eating. Even though food wasn't necessarily involved after that, the growling and "toothy grins" got worse. The only thing I usually have to do is speak to them firmly and authoritative and they stop. Believe me-I feel your pain and hope you don't have to rehome either of them. Please keep us posted and again, good luck with the problem.
p.s. Daisy gets the maddest at Delilah when Delilah tries to nicely kiss her--Delilah kisses her sister's face and Daisy's teeth come out. Delilah is a bit excessive with the "kisses"