finally home

[Laura's Babies]

REALITY speaking here....

Girl... #1... if your boyfriend based your relationship on that cell phone, it wasn't much of a relationship.

#2, if that phone was in your Mom's name, SHE says who has it and WHO uses it. It was not your phone to give anybody...

Take it from me, I worked at a high school for 21 years and you would be surprised at how many kids came back (after graduating) and said they really screwed up the day they moved out of Mama's house.... they had it made and didn't know it.

One girl, her name was Lisa said she would do ANYTHING to get her Mom to let her move back in at home. Her words were "I had it made and didn't know it! It is really hard trying to live on your own and it costs a lot of money, every cent I can make. When I lived at home, I could spend my money on ME, now I can't buy anything for paying bills!"

That grass may look greener, and actually, it really is.... but all that means is you will have so much grass to mow that you won't have time for anything else.

You have a lot to learn and learn you will! Good luck!

[Freckles]

I'm sorry, I really tried to read the message but I gave up after four lines. I suppose it's ok to use that shorthand in text messaging or on the tty, but it's just too difficult to read.

[Daisy and Delilah]

Too difficult for me to try to understand as well.

[Karen]

I sent her a PM asking for translation.

[Sevaede]

I'm with Laura, 100 percent, on this.

Another point, you are sixteen years old and live under your mothers roof. She says who comes and goes. And, like it or not, you're her daughter and she *can* tell you who you can, and cannot, see until you're 18. The age of consent, in New York state, is sixteen but you MUST have parental permission.

Please, just try to see that she has your best interest in mind and is not out to get you. Regardless of whether or not *you* know that he wouldn't do anything to hurt you, she probably doesn't (because, it seems she doesn't like him) and he hasn't done anything to convince her of otherwise.

[Catty1]

I had little problem reading this, so will give it a try:

I'm finally home. I know I didnt tell none of you guys .... but I got kicked outa my house on the 16th of this month, just hours before I went to take my american history regents. Great timing huh?

Well, it was really stupid. Me and my mom got in a fight over a cell phone that she took from my bf. She doesnt think that people really give cell phones to people who are just friends, cuz it was on my moms plan, her cell ohone plan. I'm like "if I know they can afford it I would". But it was stupid, and I got really really mad, I dont even know why. I think it was just all my anger and frustration just bottled up and it just came out @ the wrong time. So she told me to leave. I packed my stuf and made it half way down my road (its a mile and a 1/2 the whole way) when my grandpa showed up and gave me a ride 2 town. I took my test and ended up going to my dads house until tuesday, then i went 2 a friends house. I stayed there for about 2 days then I went to another friends house. My mom decided she didnt want me talkin 2 my bf anymore so she shut my phone off. I can stil get voice messages but i cant call or recieve calls, and because of her my bf doesnt want to come over to see me at all, so for rite now im home. But im not sure how long i will be here. I have 3 months and sum odd days until im 17 (december 15th) then she cant stop me from seeing my bf. But on the day of my 18th birthday I'm movin out. All this is so complicated... my head hurts... i havent slept in a real bed in about 2 weeks... and i get home and find out that my dog snowball had 2 go 2 the vet's a few days ago and she just came home 2day... thers sumthing wrong with her neck. I dont know what my mom did to her, but i know this much, it wasnt my fault. I feel sorry for my dog tho, she had 2 put up with all this, and my cats are happy im home. They dont get fed unles im home.... but thats all 4 now... ill post more later...

[Alysser]

I had little problem reading this, so will give it a try:

I'm finally home. I know I didnt tell none of you guys .... but I got kicked outa my house on the 16th of this month, just hours before I went to take my american history regents. Great timing huh?

Well, it was really stupid. Me and my mom got in a fight over a cell phone that she took from my bf. She doesnt think that people really give cell phones to people who are just friends, cuz it was on my moms plan, her cell ohone plan. I'm like "if I know they can afford it I would". But it was stupid, and I got really really mad, I dont even know why. I think it was just all my anger and frustration just bottled up and it just came out @ the wrong time. So she told me to leave. I packed my stuf and made it half way down my road (its a mile and a 1/2 the whole way) when my grandpa showed up and gave me a ride 2 town. I took my test and ended up going to my dads house until tuesday, then i went 2 a friends house. I stayed there for about 2 days then I went to another friends house. My mom decided she didnt want me talkin 2 my bf anymore so she shut my phone off. I can stil get voice messages but i cant call or recieve calls, and because of her my bf doesnt want to come over to see me at all, so for rite now im home. But im not sure how long i will be here. I have 3 months and sum odd days until im 17 (december 15th) then she cant stop me from seeing my bf. But on the day of my 18th birthday I'm movin out. All this is so complicated... my head hurts... i havent slept in a real bed in about 2 weeks... and i get home and find out that my dog snowball had 2 go 2 the vet's a few days ago and she just came home 2day... thers sumthing wrong with her neck. I dont know what my mom did to her, but i know this much, it wasnt my fault. I feel sorry for my dog tho, she had 2 put up with all this, and my cats are happy im home. They dont get fed unles im home.... but thats all 4 now... ill post more later...

Catty1, you got most of it right, but it's still hard to understand. Sorry, but I'm also with Laura to 110%. I can also help a little more if anyone wants it. I know all this chatspeak. I had a little trouble reading it but not much.