Leslie, I am no expert here but I have lived through some destructive stages with Hannah, and I think that Candy has what could be a very good take on the situation and some excellent advice. I do believe that Kersey's destructive behavior and pottying in the house is her way of relieving her own anxiety and stress. The object for you is to find other ways for her relieve her stress and not to be so stressed out to begin with.

Concentrate on play and exercise, things she enjoys. Focus on her good traits and qualities. When Hannah was a bitty puppy she was so challenging I didn't think we would ever bond. But she had one trait that was endearing in that when she was tired she wanted to cuddle and love. I focused on that in my mind and soon found she had other wonderful traits that I enjoyed.

What I am going to say next is from my theory of *If what you are doing isn't working, try something else.* Does Kersey enjoy obedience work and agility training, or does she go through it with less than enthusiasm? Maybe a break from all the structured work is in order if that is the case.

I know how important your new home is to you and you don't want it destroyed. I think once Kersey has her own yard to enjoy, it may be such a help to what she is going through. I hope you don't give up on the relationship you and Kersey are forming. There is an answer somewhere in this situation and if anyone is capable of finding it you are. You've been through difficult times before and you can get through this one too. Take several steps back from the situation and try to look at it in a depassionate way to evaluate what may be causing the problem and how to alleviate it. Good luck.