It is so very hard when we lose a loyal, faithful, and loving companion ! Despite all the pain we feel because of their death, we have to go on. I re-read the poem " Lend me a kitten," after Ralph Syracuse died. It helped me remember that all life is only here for short time, whether it be 20 years or 2 months. Ashly's love for you will always be there, his comforting presence will always be there, surrounding you. His spirit lives on in your memories of him. As long as you have memories, he will be there!! Take care! Sandra