Is this fate? Or am I stupid?

[jazzcat]

Just a question... if you foster her, would the shelter pay for her vet bills?

I bet they will but Kim will have to deal with Pouncer getting upset and sick and those vet bills on her own.

Kim - I can totally relate because I have kitten fever very badly but I know the stress of an addition will make Ripley very sick and as much as I would love to save another life and have a kitten here I can't do that to Ripley or to Richard and myself. You and I have sensitive boys who can't handle the change and stress of new cats.

I have to agree with Kuhio. Think of the big picture with all you have going on in your life right now and try to make your decision based on that. I think keeping the status quo will be easier. I know in my case it is.