Here is a great place to start letting Bower remember he is the dog and you are the person: http://www.mysmartpuppy.com/ask-us/a...-grounded.html

After you have remaster the above, you can move on to here: http://www.mysmartpuppy.com/ask-us/a...-problems.html

Sarah and Brian are fantastic trainers with a great series of books. I highly recommend them. Good luck!