Quote Originally Posted by MRichardson50
Hello,

After the death of my two dogs 2 1/2 years ago (they died three days apart), my husband and I recently purchased a 12 week old female Cocker Spaniel. She's doing very well except for a couple things. The first is when she's excited, she piddles a little. I'm not sure if this is because her bladder is weak because of her age. I hope she will out grow this. The other issue I have is she stays in her kennel during the day (which she's very fond of her kennel) from 8:30 a.m. to 11:30 a.m. and then from 12:30 - 1:00 p.m. to 4:30 p.m. She is reluctant to return to her kennel in the afternoon. We try and exercise her when she's out of her kennel. Fortunately, I only work three days a week and will be home with her the other four days. Is this too long for her to stay in her kennel. I don't want her to develop separation anxiety. I'm hoping that in time, she will adjust to our routine. At this point, I have no other options, because she is not house broken, but getting there. Can anyone tell me when a dog is housebroken? When can she go outside by herself to go potty? Is she old enough to start discipline and to start with commands such as come, sit, etc.

Thanks for any advise anyone can give me on the above mentioned issues as well as anything else I should know. Its's been a long time since I've had a puppy. It's been rather exhausting.

Michelle
Welcome to puppy world. Did you know that the love of a puppy who turns into a good dog causes complete amnesia of the previous time spent with other puppies, including....

sleepless nights, nibbled hands, spots on carpet, chewed table legs, and etc?



1) Yes, she will outgrow the submissive urination. Try to ignore it. Any attention to it will only cause it to escalate. In dog society, urinating in the presence of your superiors is EXCELLENT manners. Your puppy is telling you how much she respects you when she does this. Over time, with your gentle caring kindness and training, she will outgrow it. Mean time, do a search on SUBMISSIVE URINATION, and you will find lots of helpful hints on how to greet a puppy to minimize the sprinkling effect.

2) Honestly, I don't think that's too long in a crate for a puppy since she is having a one hour break in the middle of the day. One thing you might consider is changing her crate. If you are using a sky kennel, you might try a wire one that is slightly larger than the one you are currently using. A nice raw marrow bone might increase her willingness to go in the crate in the afternoon. Pick up several at your butcher or grocery, and freeze them. When it's time to leave for the afternoon, with very little ceremony, put her in th crate with the bone. Make sure she has a bucket of water, bone chewing is thirsty work. When you get home, again, with little ceremony, matter of factly take up the bone, put it in a plastic bag, and refreeze it. She will get the bone only when you leave in the afternoon and she is going back to her crate. This single action can eliminate crate/separation anxiety in MANY dogs.

3) I don't even think of puppies being completely housetrained (meaning eliminating outside reliably) until near 6 months of age. You should go out with her and supervise elimination until she is reliable in the house. That can be 2 weeks for some puppies, and 2 months for others. I am going to post my housetraining piece on a different topic. Print it out, and go by it religiously.

4) I will also put up the recall game, and a link to some attention training games. I do not believe in negatives with puppies this age, and I'm not sure what you mean by discipline, but if you will let me know, I'll let you know if it's appropriate or not. I'd be checking out training classes, and get in one as soon as you can in your area. Look for someone who uses treats and positives in training. Stay away from the collar yankers.

Have faith that it will become less and less exhausting as time goes by. The first 3 or 4 months can be awfully hard tho.

Have a look at the two training articles I'm about to post, and if you have questions, please let me know.