My Parents Are Getting Divorced....

**zoey** · 07-29-2006, 01:58 PM

Awwwwww. I"m so sorry you have to go through this.
It must be so painful for you. I hope you'll put all your energy into loving your mom and doing well in school.
..::HUGS::..

**jazzcat** · 07-29-2006, 02:18 PM

I'm so sorry! Sounds like you and your mother really need each other right now. Stay strong sweetie.

**Maya & Inka's mommy** · 07-29-2006, 02:45 PM

Aw Amanda, I am so sorry to hear this.... . It must have been such a shock to you...

!I know it is hard, but try to be with your mom as much as possible; in fact you two will need each other very much now.
((((((((((HUGS!!!! ))))))))))))

**Alysser** · 07-29-2006, 03:09 PM

I'm so sorry...I can't believe that's the reason. I am SO sorry!!

This must be so hard for you. (((HUGS))) you'll definatly be in my thoughts and prayers.

**caseysmom** · 07-29-2006, 03:14 PM

Sounds like your father is going through a selfish time right now. He is probably feeling his mortality and this other woman makes him feel young again. Its very selfish but just remember he is human and will make mistakes, he is still your father and no doubt he still loves you very much.

**Blue_Frog** · 07-29-2006, 03:31 PM

I'm sorry to hear about your parents. I went through the same thing about 2 years ago when my mom decided to leave my dad suddenly after 32 years - she had been unhappy for a long time, they were really very different people -i had just driven to montreal, and i turned around and drove home from montreal to toronto the same night in complete brain-fog.

My best wishes for you and your mom. I haven't been here very long, but if you ever need a sympathetic ear you're always welcome to PM me.

**Zippy** · 07-29-2006, 03:46 PM

I am so sorry(((HUGS)))
I will keep you in my prayers
I know this is hard because i am going thorw the same thing.If you need to talk PM me.

**moosmom** · 07-29-2006, 07:59 PM

I'm so sorry to hear this. We are all here for you.

**cyber-sibes** · 07-29-2006, 09:03 PM

So sorry, sweetie. Relationships can be so difficult, your mom is probably devastated too. (((hugs))) to both of you.

**shais_mom** · 07-29-2006, 11:15 PM

wow -
so sorry to hear this
please take care of your mom and yourself

**manda_moo87** · 07-30-2006, 02:03 PM

Man... oh man...

My family really confuses me and drives me up the wall, lol. This morning my Mom came in and woke me up again but this time she told me Dad is sorry and its all off.

Not sure what happened... but I guess they worked it out. I think its going to take me a while before I can trust my Dad again though, he was such a jerk to us, especially my Mom. But I guess he realized what he was throwing away by leaving us...

Thanks for all the support you guys.

**Catty1** · 07-30-2006, 04:40 PM

I hope your dad really does make a change...you don't need to be put through that again! Nor your mom!

Are they maybe going to look at counselling?

hugs!

**BOBS DAD** · 07-30-2006, 08:39 PM

Originally Posted by manda_moo87

Man... oh man...

My family really confuses me and drives me up the wall, lol. This morning my Mom came in and woke me up again but this time she told me Dad is sorry and its all off.

Not sure what happened... but I guess they worked it out. I think its going to take me a while before I can trust my Dad again though, he was such a jerk to us, especially my Mom. But I guess he realized what he was throwing away by leaving us...

Thanks for all the support you guys.

HONEY, I AM SORRY, BUT I DON'T "THINK IT IS ALL OVER" YET. I HOPE THAT THE RECONCILIATION GOES WELL AND CONTINUES TOWARDS RESOLUTION. UNFORTUNEATELY, I BELIEVE YOU WILL HAVE SOME REAL BUMPS AND DIFFICULTY COMING YOUR WAY. DON'T DESPAIR THOUGH, IF THEY ARE SERIOUS ABOUT STAYING TOGETHER, THEY'LL GET THROUGH IT. YOU JUST BE SURE TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF ALONG THE WAY. DON'T GET "TOO HIGH" OR TOO LOW. AND PLEASE TRY NOT TO TAKE SIDES.

GOOD LUCK TO YOU AND YOUR PARENTS. I am happy for you and family and hope that harmony in the home continues.